A friend of mine officiated at another friend’s wedding some time before the pandemic. I [...]
It appears that Joe Biden will take the oath of office on January 20th as [...]
After the Holocaust, social scientists were haunted by the question of why so many people [...]
This column is scheduled to run on November 6th, but I’m writing it a week [...]
I recently watched a television interview of Bruce Springsteen, a favorite of mine. He released [...]
Rob, a well-mannered, intelligent 25-year-old beneficiary to his grandfather’s trust came to me with a [...]
Several years ago, you took out a life insurance policy on your life and named [...]
For those of you who have wills and trusts that contain testamentary (post-death) trusts that [...]
When I was growing up in Indianapolis, we would visit my grandparents in Clearwater every [...]
“James,” a widower, sat in my office as we prepared his will together. “My sons [...]
My client, let’s call him Pascal, complained to me recently while reading over his estate [...]
Our national conversation over inequality has, to me, foundational issues that have largely gone unaddressed. [...]
What many clients don’t realize is that they may lose their trusted financial advisor when [...]
Any parent of more than one child knows how different our kids are – even [...]
I was 18 years old when my dad dropped me off as a freshman on the front [...]
I’m happy to announce that my oldest daughter Gabi became engaged recently to her longtime [...]
Most families have black sheep. You know what I’m talking about. There might be three siblings, but [...]
I’m going off topic today, choosing to address the controversy surrounding the removal of statues [...]
A couple of years ago, a very nice couple visited with me in my office. [...]
Many individuals have charitable intent that they would like to incorporate into their estate plans, [...]
Several years ago, when my mother was first diagnosed with acute myelodysplastic leukemia, the first thing [...]
As a somewhat public figure simply by writing this column for over twenty years, I [...]
We take for granted that the tool of a revocable living trust is available to us. We [...]
There’s a big difference between a counselor and a salesman. This became evident to me [...]
In recent weeks I’ve encountered calls from clients who, unbeknownst to me, took on the [...]
When a new client first visits with me to update their estate plan, it isn’t unusual for them [...]
Some time ago I discussed the concept of VUCA (volatile, uncertain, complex and ambiguous), and [...]
I often begin my initial consultations with a simple question. “What do we hope to accomplish today?” I intend [...]
A few years ago, New York Times columnist David Brooks wrote about two different sets [...]
The next time that you feel depressed, angry, envious, unhappy, or are simply having a [...]
Having just sent my youngest off to Elon University in North Carolina, I’ve been reflecting [...]
Albert and Victoria were interested in marrying as they had cohabitated for many years, but [...]
Names are important. A little boy named Wilfred today, compared to in the past, may [...]
My favorite definition of love is ‘giving someone the power to destroy us and trusting [...]
General Patton was once famously quoted “When everyone is thinking the same thing, then somebody’s [...]
So much of our lives are electronic and digital now, we don’t even realize it. [...]
While communication with your team of legal, tax and financial professionals is important to put [...]
Clients frequently ask whether one should transfer the title to their automobile into their revocable [...]
Over the years clients have asked me how to provide for educational gifts within their [...]
Did you know, however, that you can have the best estate planning documents ever drafted [...]
Did you ever wonder where the phrase “acting in concert” comes from? It may have [...]
One of my all-time favorite movie scenes is from The Pink Panther Strikes Again where [...]
Those ugly turkey vultures are quite ubiquitous throughout Southwest Florida. You see packs of them [...]
According to Peterson, a significant number of parents today fail to socialize their children. They [...]
Many of my clients who live on the islands dream of leaving their beloved residence [...]
Twice a week I train with a personal trainer to help keep myself physically fit. [...]
When considering your estate plan, I ask this question: do you consider it a contract [...]
I hear this question all too often. A client will come in, thinking they have [...]
You may be aware that the Tax Cuts & Jobs Act was enacted at the [...]
Many of you have heard that the Tax Cuts & Jobs Act of 2017 that [...]
Many clients have expressed a desire to create trusts for loved ones, but to not [...]
From time to time a client will not tell me about a child because they [...]
Growing up in Indianapolis, my family was close to my maternal grandparents who owned retail [...]
What do you do when an heirloom bracelet goes missing? How about when a bank [...]
When you’re named as a trustee to a trust, especially a trust in which you [...]
Children of a recently deceased client learned an expensive lesson not too long ago after [...]
What happens when a man dies with a will or a revocable trust that was [...]
Regular readers of this column know that I like to educate on the importance of [...]
So where are you from? And if you own a residence in Florida and haven’t [...]
Most clients who have revocable trusts believe that there won’t be a probate opened upon [...]
Many Florida residents, particularly those in Southwest Florida, suffered casualty losses from Hurricane Irma recently. [...]
My father-in-law, Ronald, is a pack rat. He and my mother-in-law can’t park their cars [...]
When naming spouses, children or other loved ones to serve as trustees in your testamentary [...]
As an estate planner, it is fascinating to me to see how some have acquired [...]
In my wife’s family lore they tell the story from many years ago about Uncle [...]
As Freeform (formerly ABC Family) is wont to do, a Harry Potter marathon aired this [...]
Many retirees figure that once they move past the stage in their lives where they [...]
Like many professional offices, ours has gone electronic and mostly paperless – at least as [...]
Many who own residences both here in Florida and in some northern states often consider [...]
A new client, Theresa, who recently relocated from a northern state, brought me her trust [...]
You may be surprised to learn that more than 90% of American businesses are family [...]
Many don’t completely understand the different types of deeds that might be used when transferring [...]
I recently visited New York, Boston and Chicago, and in each location I used public [...]
It’s amazing to me how the written word is often misconstrued. I believe this happens [...]
When drafting up wills and trusts, I sometimes have a client tell me that they [...]
Like many of you, over the past few weeks we entertained guests from northern locales [...]
While attending law school, I used to take a yellow highlighter and pen, writing in [...]
When my children were young, I used to read Dr. Seuss books to them. One [...]
It’s frustrating when we receive conflicting advice about a particular topic, and that is as [...]
I’m always looking for shortcuts when driving, especially during busy season. Most long-time Sanibel residents [...]
At the conclusion of our recently held client workshops we open the floor for questions. [...]
Occasionally I am asked a basic estate planning question that I will review today, and [...]
Many people move to Florida or establish residency here not only for the sunshine but [...]
I was born at the tail end of the baby boomer generation – which is [...]
When choosing how to approach your estate plan, it’s important to realize that the different [...]
We take for granted that the tool of a revocable living trust is available to [...]
Under Florida law, life insurance is exempt from the claims of creditors. The exemption is [...]
A common mistake, particularly with young parents who come into my office, is the naming [...]
Ken and Barb have a joint trust that provides for one another and upon the [...]
I was very close to my great grandmother, whom I called “Bubby.” A framed picture [...]
Many clients become confused between the difference of the duties and responsibilities of the person [...]
When you have a revocable living trust, you typically serve as your own trustee. Upon [...]
The last few years have brought several favorable developments for same sex couples in the [...]
I’ve written in the past about a variety of ways to modify problem trusts. I [...]
An adult child of a client who recently passed away contacted me to discuss what [...]
A client, “Alec” discussed imposing a third party trustee on his son “Terrance’s” inheritance, while [...]
“Calvin” visited with me recently, armed with spreadsheets describing the distributions he wanted his revocable [...]
“I know that you’re big on revocable trusts,” Jennifer began during our initial client consultation, [...]
